'-던 · -았/었던 · -곤 하다' - Describing and Recalling the Past
제가 마시던 커피예요 - the coffee I was drinking, still half full. 어릴 때 살았던 동네 - the neighborhood I used to live in, not anymore. 주말마다 등산을 가곤 했어요 - I would often go hiking on weekends. English needs a whole clause for each of these; Korean does the first two with one syllable in front of a noun.
You already build relative clauses in front of nouns with -(으)ㄴ/-는. -던 is the retrospective member of that family: it gives the noun a past that didn't finish or that kept recurring - 읽던 책 (= the book I was reading - not finished), 다니던 회사 (= the company I used to work at). English needs a full relative clause - "the book that I was reading" - while Korean needs only one syllable.
-았/었던 looks at a completely closed past from a distance: 작년에 갔던 바다 (= the beach we went to last year), 학생 때 좋아했던 노래 (= a song I liked in my school days). It quietly adds "and that's over now".
-곤 하다 recalls a habit - the natural match for English "would often": 방학이면 할머니 댁에 가곤 했어요 (= on school vacations I would often go to my grandmother's). For a present habit, the present form works too: 주말에는 늦잠을 자곤 해요 (= I often sleep in on weekends).
| Pattern | Feeling | Example |
|---|---|---|
| -던 | left unfinished · recalled repetition | 아까 보던 영화 계속 볼까요? |
| -았/었던 | finished past · not anymore | 예전에 자주 만났던 친구예요 |
| -(으)ㄴ (for comparison) | plain past fact | 어제 본 영화 |
| -곤 하다 | repeated habit ("would often") | 비 오는 날이면 부침개를 먹곤 했어요 |
이건 제가 쓰던 노트북이에요. 아직 잘 돼요. This is the laptop I've been using. It still works fine. - here -던 recalls use that continued over time, rather than use that was interrupted.
여기가 우리 가족이 살았던 집이에요. This is the house my family used to live in. - a closed past: we don't live there anymore.
대학 시절에는 밤새 이야기하곤 했어요. In my university days, we would often talk all night. - a habit recalled from a distance.
1. 아까 제가 먹( ) 과자 어디 있어요? 아직 남았는데요.
2. 이 노래는 고등학교 때 매일 들( ) 노래예요. (you don't listen to it now)
3. 스트레스를 받으면 혼자 영화를 보( ).
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1. 던 (먹던 - "some is still left" shows the action was not finished) 2. 었던 (들었던 - a finished past, not anymore) 3. 곤 했어요 (보곤 했어요 - a repeated habit)